Some people die before they ever take accountability. Some people die exactly how they lived—abusive, manipulative, cruel, distant, selfish.

We’ve been sold a lie by movies, memoirs, and a thousand well-meaning Hallmark cards: That dying means becoming better. “Better” Is Bullshit

Why do we expect dying people to be graceful? Let me be blunt: If you're dying, you're allowed to be pissed.